It’s Complicated

It’s complicated. “It’s complicated” is a relationship status on Facebook. It is also an apt description of pretty much everything in life. Everything worth doing, anyway. It’s complicated. Relationships are complicated. They just are. In the words of the Dread Pirate Roberts, anyone who says different is selling something. Relationships follow a story arc. There … Continue reading It’s Complicated


Looking for a Fight

Spring has sprung. Or rather, it’s March and while spring isn’t “officially” here yet it’s been here in spirit for awhile. But then again it’s also supposed to snow this weekend so maybe spring is just confused. It’s March in Kentucky. Anything can happen. The coming of spring is a wonderful time. It is a … Continue reading Looking for a Fight


The first night after he was born I drove home and couldn't stop seeing his face in my mind. I went to sleep seeing that face. I woke up seeing that face. I drove back to the hospital still seeing that beautiful little face, just hoping it was still there and it hadn't all been … Continue reading Josh


Shannon and I met in 1997 and hit it off pretty quickly. We were 18. Our first real date was to a UK basketball game. I did not know at the time that she hated basketball. It would be years until she trusted me with that information. Would that have made a difference? Probably not. … Continue reading Always